Lockdown Day 39 – 4 May 2020 – No Rights

Pink Floyd – Another Brick in the Wall

Many people will not like what I am going to say now.

It is very simple, if you believe in human rights, you have been had! Somebody screwed with your head and you are the victim of “thought control.”

I dare you to kiss a Corona Virus infected person and say out loud: “Virus, go to hell, I have the human right to health.”

I dare you to walk up to a lion and say out loud: “Lion, go to hell, I have a human right to live.”

Nobody has any rights, but everybody has responsibilities. Acting out your responsibilities will give you benefits and perhaps, some rights.

You have a responsibility to live responsibly.

You have a responsibility to keep the water clean, then we will all have clean water.

You have a responsibility to use water sparingly, then we will all have enough water.

You have a responsibility to keep the air we breathe clean, so we can all be healthy.

You have a responsibility to eat healthy, then you will have health.

You have a responsibility to practice safe sex.

You have a responsibility to not have more children than you can afford,
and if you are anti-abortion, you have a responsibility to care for the babies you save. You do not have a right to make somebody else responsible for your convictions!

You have a responsibility to provide for yourself.

You have a responsibility to treat your employees fairly (including fair wages) if you are an employer.

You have a responsibility do your work and to earn your money fairly if you are an employee.

You have a responsibility to govern to the benefit of all the people if you are a politician. Failing that you should be replaced.

You have all the freedom you need to choose whatever you want, but YOU, and ONLY you, are responsible for your choices.

You have a responsibility to maintain and look after the things you have – that includes governments who should maintain roads, airlines, Eskom and many other national assets.

It is my perception that the people who do the mind control and lie to people about “human rights” live comfortably. Since I knew him, this is the best example of what I mean. My example is Sydney, the Union representative when I was a manager in a underwear factory. Whenever Sydney could not get his way, he threatened me: “I will close this factory down.” To my question “what happens to the 150 people who work here if you close us down?” he shrugged his shoulders.  Not his concern. He would waste my time until he could go home early instead of back to the office. The factory did close down (not mainly because of the Union). Afterwards I regularly saw Sydney here or there. He never liked it when I asked him if he found work for the 150 people, yet. He still drove his Polo, though. Still wore nice suits. The workers, whom he regularly encouraged to strike, was unemployed.

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It is also my impression that when people insist on their “human rights” they want something for free. The only way that anybody can get anything for free, is that somebody else must act responsibly and pay for it! Governments do not generate money. They take money from people who generate money. Business, and only business (in a very wide sense), generates money. Somebody makes something that somebody else wants or needs. Somebody renders a service to help somebody else. That generates money. If politicians were paid for productivity they would be beggars. That means a politician can  only give away money that a responsible citizen worked for!

Human Rights that entitles people to stuff that they do not work for, make people victims! They become worse than charity cases. They lose a sense of pride. There are two types of people at the robots. Those who stand with a piece of cardboard and play an emotional game and remind me of their irresponsibility to have children that I now have to pay for. The other type is the person trying to generate an income by selling something (i.e. doing business), whether it is the Big Issue, BIG pens or just acting the clown to entertain people. Next time, look at the body language of the two types. The one has become pathetic, the other has pride.

(Before you get me wrong, I am a softy. I give away easily. I have empathy and even sympathy. I also understand that there are structural issues in the world economy, that make these words seem harsh. But whatever the case may be, nobody has rights.)

People do sometimes make wrong choices. I have made many. Sometimes people do need help. I needed help a few times. But I do not have a right to help. Help is voluntary, help is grace. Help comes from grace and should be accepted with grace and treated with respect and gratitude. It is gratitude that makes the difference!

You may asked what do I suggest?  Here it is:

As from six months from now, we will not pay any child-allowances for new babies.  Condoms and birth control are free and freely available – use it. We will pay for sterilizations and vasectomies. You choose.

We offer free entrepreneurship classes at public libraries and we will assist with advice and, on merit, with capital to start micro-businesses. If you show yourself trustworthy in the little things, we will trust you with bigger things. Government will (I hope I live to see this) act responsibly and make it easier for micro- and small businesses to start and do business. Big business will get a vision that more small businesses will be good for their business. Since I am dreaming, I am dreaming BIG. But I am not thumb sucking. I have at least read 3 books about helping the poorest of the poor. The first was The Fortune at the Bottom of The Pyramid.  I cannot remember the titles of the other two.

Since no teacher has any rights, I will get rid of any teacher who does not produce (please do not be to hasty to tie that shoe if you are a teacher, just do your work responsibly!). We need quality education to be able to choose responsibly. Teachers play an immense role in this dream of mine. 

Here is the thing! If you act responsibly and you do what you have to do when you have to do it, you will get to the point that you can do what you want to do when you want to do it. I think Zig Ziglar said that.

Human Rights make people poor, rob them of self-respect and make them victims. Human Rights will always lead to a minimal society. 

Responsibility leads to self-esteem and pride and abundance– even if it does not make you rich.

The choice is yours.

There is a comment section below, please tell me what you think?

To be continued tomorrow …

 

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Lockdown Day 38 – 3 May 2020 – Longing in My Heart

Henrik Chaim Goldschmidt plays Gabriel’s Oboe

The banner photo show the boys on holiday – day 2 of a three day trip to Parys. The way they get excited when I take the keys or put on hiking boots, dogs have a memory, a very good one, and also have a Longing in their Hearts.

For good measure I also listen to Gabriella’s Song from As it is in Heaven. I can’t remember how many times I watched this movie. Perhaps as many times as Shrek! And each time I find something more!

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Yesterday I started reading The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society. Although not the same genre, but I enjoy it as much as I enjoyed The 100 year old man who climbed through the window and disappeared.

War is an ugly thing. There is nothing romantic about it. Time we insist that those who declare war fight their own wars! Or send their own wives/husbands/children/grandchildren to do it on their behalf. Just a thought, as I read the The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.

Since I have children in Jersey, Canada and 500 m up the street, and they feel all the same distance away, my overbearing feeling today is a longing for my children and holding and playing with my grandchildren.

I do not know who said the following, but is about he or she knows.

“Someone asked me if I missed you. I didn’t answer. I just closed my eyes and walked away and whispered ‘so much’.”

“Missing someone is your heart’s way of reminding you that you love them.”

 

 

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Lockdown Day 37 – 2 May 2020 Nostalgia

Soon you will hear that I am feeling nostalgic this morning. In this mood I decide to listen to Deborah’s Theme (Once Upon a Time in America)—Ennio Morricone

After going for a stroll during the allotted time (what craziness!), I came back and painted our camp stove. The memories go back almost 50 years. A nostalgia for the good times with my parents, my family, and children. Camping. food prepared on that stove, storms survived, a lifetime in a 2-plate camping gas stove.

I had to include Diane Setterfield’s quote – it is só me and I just had to re-listen  Susan Cain, with whom I share the love of books and who taught me why I am like I am, at TED. Listen to Susan Cain, perhaps you understand.

“I have always been a reader; I have read at every stage of my life, and there has never been a time when reading was not my greatest joy. And yet I cannot pretend that the reading I have done in my adult years matches in its impact on my soul the reading I did as a child. I still believe in stories. I still forget myself when I am in the middle of a good book. Yet it is not the same. Books are, for me, it must be said, the most important thing; what I cannot forget is that there was a time when they were at once more banal and more essential than that. When I was a child, books were everything. And so there is in me, always, a nostalgic yearning for the lost pleasure of books. It is not a yearning that one ever expects to be fulfilled.”
― Diane Setterfield, The Thirteenth Tale

“Nothing is ever really lost to us as long as we remember it.”
― L.M. Montgomery, The Story Girl

Being an introvert, it is difficult to make small talk. Books were my friends before I could read. I read all the youth series of my time. I started reading non-fiction at an early age. It was almost a daily trip to the library behind the old oak slave tree in York Street, George. I will be forever indebted to the librarian (with hindsight and being older I realise she understood me) who allowed me to sneak into the adult section of the library and borrow those books in the children’s section long before I was the age to move over. In those days adult section had nothing to do with X-rated! I am forever grateful to a friend of my sister who forced me to read Alistair Maclean before I could borrow a penny-dreadful (which I never borrowed after getting into Alistair Maclean).  It is about books and authors who had an influence, but it is also about people who contributed to make me the man I am because of the person the are (or were, unfortunately). Often I wish I could go back and thank them.

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I look over my bookshelves. I gave away many of my books last year to make room and tidy up. My mind goes back to Og Mandino and Napoleon Hill. Bill Bryson’s A Short History of Nearly Everything and Stephan Hawking A Brief History of Time. Seth Godin and Steven Levitt, Malcolm Gladwell, Edward de Bono, Stephan Covey, Khalid Hosseini, and Philip Yancey … I can go on forever. Books of all kinds have formed me. Out of lockdown a weekly visit to the library would be extra luxurious! Memories filled with books. Memories of times spend at the library. Memories of visiting the library with Leah.

Music also brings memories. Demis Roussos will always remind me of See and Sand camps in 1975 and a three week holiday on my own at Victoria Bay in Dec 1976. And the people I with whom I made a lifetime if good memories in three weeks. Fun experiences. December 1976 was the holiday when I had breakfast, lunch and dinner at the same time – just before bed. There just wasn’t time to eat during the day. Fortunately, from time-to-time, some other campers invited me to have something to eat with them. And every now and again my Mom brought me some food. A most memorable holiday. Music can take you back to places you have been – like Neil Diamond singing I am I said at full blast driving through Golden Gate. It sounds like an abomination, but it was a way to express the exhilaration I felt with living and being there at t that moment.

Smells can also recall memories in a flash. I have lots of Diesel memories. When I was about 11 years old, my dad had a smallholding outside Blanco near George. Another source of good memories. Early Saturday mornings we would go there to work. A few Canada Dry’s (cooldrinks) in water in the shade, for lunchtime. The smell of diesel when the first puff of black diesel smoke escapes the exhaust. Our tour through South West Africa (now Namibia) in June 1977. Rising early to start driving at daybreak. Starting the Diesel Mercedes to idle and warm-up while packing the last baggage. The smell of Diesel and National Service in the Navy. The smell of Diesel recalls that remarkable sound when a Strike Craft’s engine starts turning over with compressed air. There is an extra special memory attached to this. A trip to Durban. Entering the harbor at sundown after maneuvers at sea. A quick decision to pack and return to Simon’s Town (home) immediately when the “washup” was done. The 2IC and myself on the bridge. I confess to him I am in love with the sound of those majestic engines starting. He says: “You should hear it when we start all 6 together.” I reply: “Do it!” “We only do that in an emergency.” To which I reply: “It is an emergency, we are going home.” He chuckles and pipes to the Chief Engineer in the engine room: “Start all the engines simultaneously.” Chief Engineer:  “We only do that in an emergency?” “It is an emergency, we are going home,” the 2IC echoes my words.  Thirty-three years later I still get goose-bumps thinking of it.

Every day, every moment we make memories. While we make the effort, let it be good memories! Memories not only keep us alive, it also keeps people, perhaps long gone, alive. Perhaps we only really die when nobody remembers us anymore. We die when all memories of us are gone.

The cover photo represents memories of a visit to the Kruger National Park. That Hilux was Donkedoef. He used old style diesel … (Look, and you will see the stove!)

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Lockdown Day 36 1 May 2020 – JOY!

Paul McCartney & The Frog Chorus – We All Stand Together 

No, I am not listening to We all Stand Together because of COVID-19 and the fact that we are all in the same storm – although it is a very appropriate song for these times. The real reason why it brings me JOY is below, just read on.

“They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.”
― Tom Bodett

“Without pain, how could we know joy?’ This is an old argument in the field of thinking about suffering and its stupidity and lack of sophistication could be plumbed for centuries but suffice it to say that the existence of broccoli does not, in any way, affect the taste of chocolate.”
John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.”
― Rumi

I found my quotes at www.goodreads.com/quotes/

JOY!

Quote 1:  Who do you love? What do you do that is leaving a legacy? What do you hope for (that motivates you to act)? When I make this list, it is not just family and pets that come to mind. There are many people in this category.  There are many things I love to do. Included in things to do, are places I love to go. Leaving a legacy I wrote about before. I hope for a better world and that sharing my thought may contribute in creating it. A becoming world after COVID-19, always growing.

Quote 2:  I added this quote because I have so much issue with the story that goes:  “I complained about not having shoes, then I saw a guy without feet.” Gratitude is a very important attitude, No denying that. But I am grateful that I do have feet and would like to have decent shoes. I imagine the guy without feet has his own needs. No correlation between broccoli and chocolate! Do I have to be an alcoholic to appreciate wine?

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Quote 3: What do I do from my soul? I have a grandson, but he was a few weeks old when we went into lockdown, and I did not have time to play with him like I would like to do. I am looking forward to the day that we can walk to the dam and the ducks. But here are real memories.  What do I do from my soul that flows and gives me joy? Anything I have done with my granddaughters! That is where Stand Together comes in. When Leah was small I looked after her every Friday. From a few months old to two years, when they move to Ireland. We had a ritual that evolved as she grew older. Later we visited the library every Friday. One day we took out a book about a frog choir. After reading the book I played this video for her. She thoroughly enjoyed the frogs and the Bom, bom.

Shared joy is exponentially greater joy, especially when doing something for somebody else!

The header photo symbolizes JOY to me. It is a memory of a good weekend away, and it is Benji, the Yorkie, chasing a ball. It brings him immense JOY.

Writing this COVID-19 journal, even when I write about depression, brings me joy!

And this video from the Little Mermaid was a hit when my daughters were young. They sang these songs. Thinking of them brings me joy and this song recalls all the good times.

 

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Lockdown Day 35 30 April 2020 – Retrenched!

As promised yesterday, here is the information that I received via email yesterday.

But first, my music is by Tygerberg Children’s Choir. I am a longtime fan of this choir. This song brings back wonderful memories. UKUTHULA

Some background. Barry Mitchell is a South African sales trainer trained by Blair Singer of the Rich Dad school. I am following him and get his regular emails and newsletters. I also regularly attend his webinars. He is really challenging and has excellent results. Unfortunately, I have not yet attended a paid event!  One day is one day.

Barry’s Website

Obviously, many of the people that I follow are as concerned about the financial effect of the Corona Virus and Lockdown on individuals and business. I copy the email below and encourage you to visit his visit his website and subscribe to his newsletter. Barry Mitchell’s Little Voice Mastering is probably the one course I need most!

THE EMAIL STARTS HERE:

Worried about losing your job or having to let go of your staff during this time? Are you wondering how you or your staff can build resilience through this and come out on the other side strong?

Job losses are inevitable. So, the only thing you can control is how you will handle it. Here are 5 tips of how you or your staff can mentally prepare yourselves:

The market is going to shed jobs and create new jobs. Everyone is at risk so, don’t take it personally.

Watch how you define yourself – you are not your job. Your worth is not determined by your title nor by what you have. You are much bigger than what you do and what you have.

Change how you think about making money – You need income not a job. Jobs and businesses don’t make money but sales does.

You are going to need to tap into new skills and new capabilities. Find out what it is that you don’t know and need to know; and get busy learning.

Be bold & courageous – there’s a lot of unknowns that lie ahead so it means risks will have to be taken. So, give yourself permission to get it wrong at first.

Q Nkomo

 

During a time of uncertainty here are some simple tips to assist you manage your CASH FLOW

Get Present with your money – Take a look at your last 3 months bank statements. Personal & Business.for all your accounts savings, cheque and credit cards.

Get an Awareness of how your money flows – What is actually coming in and what is going out? List all your Incomes and then all your Expenses.per account

Pay attention to your monthly debit orders – Are you spending money on subscriptions or insurances which you may no longer need?

Draw up a budget – Pay attention to what you used to spend your money on before lockdown, to give yourself an indication as to what you have managed to go without. Once you have allocated your main living expenses, see what is left for entertainment and luxuries, strictly stick to this.

Look at your interest charges – Pay attention to what interest you are being charged where. See where you are paying the most interest.

Get a plan with your money – Have a strategy for exactly where it’s going to go.

Cover the minimum payments – Take a look, what is your minimum payment amount due and pay at least that. If you can pay more, select one account that has the highest interest charge and pay the extra amount on that account. Once you have settled that account pay that same full amount into your next account. Before you know it you would have settled this debt.

Apply for payment relief only if you need to – Only do this if your income has been affected drastically and pay attention to the terms & conditions, it’s often not the pretty picture we think it is.

Look at alternative additional income options – If you can start working on something part time from home, take the opportunity. You will learn some new skills and meet some new people and make extra money which can go a long way in your future.

Be disciplined but don’t be hard on yourself – Here you are creating an awareness in order to take your financial power back. So Get Real and Honest with your numbers, then move with your plan.

Michelle B

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Lockdown Day 34 29 April 2020 – Starting Over

Somebody sent me this link yesterday. A cellist I like, music I love, a setting that fascinates me. A real winner that helps for depression.

HAUSER: Alone, Together‘ from Arena Pula

My thoughts today are about After The Storm?

Storms don’t come to teach us painful lessons, rather they were meant to wash us clean. –  Shannon – L. Alder

When the storm has passed, put your energy into rebuilding your life, don’t waste time looking back.
– Leon Brown

I found these quotes here.

In January 1981 there was the Laingsburg flood. One of those events that changes lives. It was a Sunday and I was driving back from George to Stellenbosch to start working and studying towards an Honnours Degree. I only learnt about it the next day, but I missed being stopped by the flood waters in Ashton by minutes. A friend had to make a huge detour. When the news reports and photos came out, I was dumb-struck.

It was a devastating event claiming lives and leaving an indelible memory on the lives of those who survived. Most people will tell you about the Laingsburg flood, if they were old enough in 1981.

A few weeks later I attended a Lunch Hour Concert in the Endler Hall. Rudolf Temming composed music After the Storm which he performed in the Fischmer Hall. I wish I copuld listen to that again, as I think of that music a lot these days. I could hear and feel the storm, hear the slow, soft start, the rising wind and increasing violence. I remember how the tempest of the music slowly subsided, and the music ended calmly. As I said before, every storm runs out of rain and the sun shines again.

A lot is being said that after the Corona Virus there will be a “new normal.” I have not yet read anything convincing by anybody trying to predict that new normal and what it will be like – beyond washing hands (and not buying toilet paper for a long time? – just a joke). I do not know what the new future looks like, either.

I do know without a doubt that on an individual basis we will have to create our own future. If you come out of this with a job or a business, you are lucky. If you think you will come out of this and find a job, I hope you are right. I rather think you should think of creating your own job. If you hit the subscribe button below and subscribe to The GUTSy Newsletter, you will get a link to that e-book I put on Kindle. If you followed my Journal, you will know about that book. In that book I set out my process of planning for After The Storm. It is free. It is simple.

Yesterday I listened to a coach again. I was depressed, but it will not help to wallow in the depression! I have to help myself if I want to help others. He encouraged us to “look at what you can do with what you have.”

He also advised us not to hide from reality “binging Netflix.” The message is always the same. “Experience what you feel. Do not run from it. Do not succumb to your fears.”

I still want to do Short-term insurance after the storm. What will I do to get clients again? Already some of my clients lost jobs and businesses. I hope they will get going again and will come back to me. I have to plan to rebuild my business.

If I want to start an online business, what do I need to do? What skills do I need? Where can I find the skills I need– YouTube is an excellent starting point. And Google, being what it is, many ideas pop up on my screen now! The Law of Attraction at work or plain simple algorithms of after the search?

I do not know what life will be like after the storm. I hope, I sincerely hope we are kind to ourselves and others. I sincerely hope that we will be kind to nature. I hope we live with heart.

I will still need money to buy food, pay taxes, and live. While I have time, I am trying to prepare as best I can.

Will it work? I do not know – yet. If it does not work, I have not lost anything. At least I am sure I can use the skills in other ways. As somebody said yesterday,

FAIL = First Attempt At Learning.

(I am always 1 day behind posting here. I rework my thoughts before posting. This morning I received an email that became my Journal – come back tomorrow!)

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One thing I believe with my whole heart, exactly like in Hauser’s video, the day will break when we take off our masks, come out of hiding with a smile and embrace life and each other with a new gratitude, closer to each other, because we share a storm.

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Lockdown Day 33 28 April 2020 – Depression

Gabriel Faure Requiem – In Paradiso, although I rather feel in Hell!

Over the weekend several emails came in. All with the same theme. “How can I reduce my premiums?” “Can I claim under Business Interruption?” “I am in trouble.” Lockdown is creating financial havoc!

A historical reminder. At the beginning of lockdown I decided to journal every day. So far I have and I found it a very positive activity. What you read here is my thoughts and feelings on that particular day. 

Unless we cancel cover on some items, we cannot save money and it is not always possible to cancel cover! Business Interruption will not cover you. The insurance industry is not financially strong enough to save us from this disaster. Worst part is, I really want to help these people, and there is nothing I can do. Then I feel guilty, too!

I marvel at the idea of “essential and non-essential service.” The economy is not something up there in a big figure GDP, or a  Debt-to-Income ratio. The economy is in everyday people like you and I. From the poorest of us to the wealthiest of us. We all make up the economy and we need each other to make it work. The economy is a circle. It is a flow.

Let me give you two extremely (over) simplified examples of how the economy works, so that you understand the circle-flow idea.

A rich American stopped in a small town, walked into the hotel, and asked: “How much for a room tonight.” The hotelier said $150. The traveler put the money on the counter and went upstairs to inspect the room. The hotelier ran out and paid the butcher the $150 he owed for meat. The butcher ran out and paid the mechanic the money outstanding for the repairs to the delivery vehicle. The mechanic ran to the Lady of Pleasure to pay his debt for services rendered. The Lady of Pleasure ran to the hotel to pay her bill of $150 for short-term room rentals. Just then the traveler came down the stairs and said he decided to rather move on. He took his money off the counter where the Lady of Pleasure put it down. He is now out of the story.

Nobody in our small town had $150 cash anymore, but nobody owed anybody either – with just 1 payment of $150 everybody got $150 richer! A very simplified explanation, but money flows in a continuous circle. Lockdown has stopped the flow. And everybody will suffer for that.

The next stupid, over-simplified story to explain the economy.

Have you ever wondered why factories open at 08h00 and retail stores at 09h00 and close an hour earlier and later, respectively?

Here is the story – factories must be 1 hour ahead with production. Eight ‘o clock dad starts manufacturing toilet paper (very important because of the Coronavirus). Then Mom can go to the shop at 09h00 to buy the toilet paper that dad made with the money dad earned so that the shop owner can pay the factory owner so that he can pay dad a salary so that mom …

The economy that we speak of as if it is some mysterious, vague entity somewhere “out there,” far removed from us, is not far out there separate from us. The economy is made up of millions of transactions like these, moms buying toilet paper and other household goods and more. Our transactions – whatever you buy, big or small, cheap or expensive. Every single one of our transactions makes the economy. No matter where you fall on the income scale, you contribute to the economy and because you contribute, you have an income. If you do not contribute, you cannot have a sustainable income. Naturally, we do not only buy one product, that is how the neigbour gets paid a salary. And how mom gets paid for whatever work she does.

Let’s imagine mom is a hairdresser, whom somebody decided is a “non-essential service.” Mom is not earning an income due to lockdown rules. Dad is making “essential” toilet paper. Suddenly his income must buy more goods, like food. Since mom does not have an income, she buys less toilet paper. The flow slows down and dad goes on short-time. Less income. Less toilet paper. Slower flow. More short-time. Slowly the flow grinds to a halt – because somebody thought the boy buying a piece of bubblegum is “non-essential.” Trivial as it seems, that boy and his bubblegum is shown somewhere in the unpronounceable GDP figure the Minister of Finance throws around with ease as if it is small change, while I certainly have no conception of how much money we are talking of in those figures.

Now imagine there is no dad in the story of the single parent hairdresser! (Replace hairdresser with any personal service occupation, if I have to get your imagination going.)

Nowhere have I spoken about taxes. What happens to VAT and other taxes as the flow slows down? You are right – it also slows down. What does that mean? Government workers are not exempt from the crisis! Flow decreases even more. Taxes decrease.

Nobody is exempt from the slowing circular flow, not even government employees (except politicians?)

We need to rethink Coronavirus, lockdown and economy very carefully. It is an extremely fine line between killing people with a virus or with starvation. We should be careful not to react emotionally. We should be careful to not react too rationally that we forget we are dealing with lives. Especially we should not panic. But we need to find the balance very quickly. In my small circle I know of a few people who do not have a job anymore.

That is why I am depressed today.

And the solution so far has sold my great-grandchildren to save my life. Which, after all, may not be saved!

Depression depression!

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Lockdown Day 32 – 27 April 2020 – Locked-Up Freedom

Gladiator Now We are Free

Freedom Day in South Africa. A day to celebrate when South Africa had her first democratic election in 1994. I lived through about 30 years of Apartheid. My dad and a few other respected people told me  “What I voted for in 1948 and what we got, is not the same thing.” In 1948 people were lied to. I lived through a period when The Broederbond controlled “our thoughts” form an early age through Church, School, newspapers and many other organisations . I lived through a time when people I now respect after reading their stories and getting to know them better in an open society, were public enemy #1!

Freedom Day, 27 April 1994 did not just set the Black people free. It set us all free!

“Freedom’s just another word for nothin’ left to lose
Nothin’, don’t mean nothin’ hon’ if it ain’t free, no no”
Janis Joplin

Over a long time many people played a role in setting us free. There are many unsung heroes in this story. But one person will always stand out above the rest. Nelson Mandela, Madiba. I reflect on some of his quotes.

“No single person can liberate a country. You can only liberate a country if you act as a collective.”

“May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.”

“Poverty is not an accident. Like slavery and apartheid, it is man-made and can be removed by the actions of human beings.”

“And if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love.”

“Action without vision is only passing time, vision without action is merely day dreaming, but vision with action can change the world.”

“Sometimes, it falls upon a generation to be great. You can be that great generation. Let your greatness blossom.”

“When a man is denied the right to live the life he believes in, he has no choice but to become an outlaw.”

“Overcoming poverty is not a gesture of charity, it is an act of justice.”

“For to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.”

As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be in prison.”

Mandela Quotes found at this site.

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
– Victor Frankl

 

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Lockdown Day 31 – 26 April 2020 – A Tale of Two Countries

Since we live in interesting times, it is The Byrds singing Turn Turn Turn

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way – in short, the period was so far like the present period, that some of its noisiest authorities insisted on its being received, for good or for evil, in the superlative degree of comparison only.”
– Charles Dickens – A Tale of Two Cities

I never read a Tale of Two Cities, but I love the much quoted introductory paragraph – I think every period of history will fit that description.

I apologize to Dickens for borrowing his title and twisting it to “A Tale of Two Countries.”

In 1995 I had the privilege to visit Morocco and Casablanca. For some reason an elderly parish member did not like the idea of me going there. She warned me “the flies will eat you.” I laughed. Then one afternoon we walked the back streets of Casablanca and I saw this dark cloud hanging in the distance. When we got close, it was flies – it was a street butchery! I will spare you the details. I did have a chuckle when I thought of the “prophesy!”

A year later I had another life-changing experience to visit Zimbabwe, Mozambique, and Malawi. I think it was Lilongwe where I had this same experience I had in Morocco and saw the street butchery again. This time only bigger.

Fast forward a year or three. I have resigned from the ministry and work as a financial adviser. I have an appointment with a client in Khayelitsha. I raise my hat to him.  While working as a petrol pump attendant at a filling station he completed a B Com degree. He now owns a few businesses in Khayelitsha. With a collar and tie I head for Khayelitsha. I cross a tarred road and …

Hairsalon

Wild Coast Hairdresser

Airtime

Wild Coast Phone Shop

I am in Africa! It is like Blantyre and Lilongwe and the backstreets of Morocco! It is a hustle and bustle. There is an economy here. Shanty businesses everywhere. Hairdresser, airtime, Coke, used tires, exhaust shops, you name it. And a street butchery!

Beauty Parlour

Beauty Parlour In Wild Coast

A week later I meet the client at his flat in Woodstock on a Saturday afternoon. I tell him about my experience. He laughs his deep, baritone laugh and says: “Piet, you are 40 years old and never realized you live in Africa!” Absolutely.

That was an important lesson in my life.

Many people still have not learned that lesson! We tend to think from the center – where we are and how we are is the norm for everybody.  Everybody is like us (or should be).

If you gave me a choice of any place to go on holiday, it is not Beacon Isle, it is the old Transkei Wild Coast. Then you really see the two countries. An age-old culture where men tend the cows and women work in the fields. A culture not based on a money or a cash economy! I often wonder how one survives in a money-economy living in a basic agricultural economy.

Why do I share this? Because, if we want to move forward in South Africa, we have to realize it is the Tale of Two Countries (in One).

I think it is John Mbiti who said: “Not everyone likes a garden at his front door.” I understand that very well. I have a sister  who (at least 3 of my 4 sisters) loves  gardening (I do not). This sister has this mission to start gardening whenever she visits us. No, not bring plants, actually start digging and start a garden. When she leaves, I have to water and tend that garden. Can you feel my irritation? She just doesn’t get it that I don’t have a garden because I do not want one. Since she wants a garden and has a garden, I MUST want one too and MUST have one, too. It is inconceivable that I do not want or need a garden.

A virus allows us to reflect, to plan the future we want. If we really want a better future, we must stop telling other people what they should do based on our reality.

We live in Africa and a global village at the same time. A finely woven web of interconnections. A world of interdependence. We can react emotionally and say we will not do business with China, I understand that. I also know it would by cutting my nose to spite my face! Whether it is China, USA, Europe or the people of South Africa – we interdependent are need each other to survive. We will do well to remember it and respect it. Let’s align with this reality and not try to fight it. Together we can build a much better future.

Alone, we are back in caves.

 

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Lockdown Day 30 – 25 April 2020 – Columbus and the New World

Conquest of Paradise is a Vangelis masterpiece. It is on the playlist in my Hilux a few times.  Whenever it starts playing, the volume must be as high as possible and the windows open. I want to feel the wind in my face, my arm outside the window. I can describe this feeling with just one word – INVIGORATING!

It comes from the movie 1492: A Conquest of Paradise telling the story of Columbus sailing to the New World.

There is one scene in this epic movie that stuck with me. Columbus is successful and makes enemies, as always happen with successful people. His drive to achieve his dreams antagonizes many people. Some people believe in his dreams, but they are not the people of power. His enemies ridicule him, a ploy as old as the world itself. Then this conversation between two officials:

“- Arojaz: What a tragedy. What a waste of a life.
– Sanchez: A waste? Well, if your name or mine is ever remembered it will only because of his.”
looking at Columbus from a distance after the discovery of America is attributed to Amerigo Vespucci

It is the dreamers who follow their dreams and work against all odds that make their dreams come true and change the world. Everything that is, started with a dream.  How will I enter the new world? With a dream? A dream big enough to change me and those around me? Timidly, fearful? I hope to enter it boldly, daringly, courageously.

I conclude with a few quotes I found motivating while looking for the one above.

Sanchez: [pausing to look] I see rooftops, I see palaces, I see towers, I see spires that reach… to the sky! I see civilisation!
Columbus: All of them built by people like me. [Sanchez doesn’t respond – shocked] No matter how long you live, Sanchez, there is something that will never change between us. I did it. You didn’t.

Sanchez: You know, Your Eminence, the fascinating thing about power is that what can be given so effortlessly can so easily be taken away.

Columbus: Damn God! Damn of all of you! You all sit at your desks concocting theories! Based on what? You never leave the protection of your gardens. Go out! Find out what the world is about and then tell me something I can accept.

https://www.quotes.net/movies/1492:_conquest_of_paradise_109503

“Every man is afraid when he does something for the first time. But those who overcome their fears will rightly earn their rewards.”
GÉRARD DEPARDIEU – Columbus

We cannot be lost as long as we keep faith in God and in ourselves. In time they will talk about the courage of the first men who crossed this ocean and returned. And then you will be able to say to them: “I was on the Pinta, I was on the Nina and the Santa Maria”.
GÉRARD DEPARDIEU – Columbus

https://www.moviequotes.com/s-movie/1492-conquest-of-paradise/

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
– Eleanor Roosevelt

 

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